So much of life with kids is feeding them. If you can make the meal time experience positive—for everyone involved—you’re looking at a much easier life.
So let’s talk meals: They’re something I think about a lot—personally and professionally. As Eater’s restaurant editor, I’m forever focused on the who, what, why, how, and hell-yes of dining out. I’ve even authored a cookbook dedicated to bringing all the tips, tricks, and recipes from the restaurant world into the home kitchen. Yes, even home kitchens inhabited by picky toddlers, ravenous teenagers, and exhausted parents desperate for just one nice meal, please. I knew when I had my daughter that I wanted her to experience the wonder that food holds. I also wanted to be intentional about my efforts to model and nurture a healthy relationship to food as it relates to her body. Food is nourishment, comfort, and culture—which brings a lot of joy, but also a lot of questions.
How do we avoid bringing diet culture to the table? How can we use food as a starting point in a conversation about identities and histories? How do we deal with only wanting mac and cheese? And wait—what is a weighted straw cup and do I need to get one for my baby? The collection below offers insight and strategies I’ve relied on as a food-loving parent who wants to prioritize making meal times in my own home as delicious, as enriching, and as affirming as possible.
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A Sneak Peak Inside Eater’s First Cookbook
HDC: Yes, I’m plugging the cookbook (out in September!) but also including this link for the sneak peek of the halo-halo recipe from Kamayan in Atlanta. Dessert can be a fun entry point for kids to become more adventurous with tastes and textures—especially when Fruity Pebbles are involved.”
Leave Fat Kids Alone
HDC: “What if we didn’t wage wars on bodies? What if we didn’t shame children at the doctor? These questions, asked by influential writer Aubrey Gordon aren’t just hypotheticals; as a child in a large body, she faced the very real effects of the ‘war on obesity’ and her experiences should make anyone reconsider our ongoing ‘battle.’ You might know Gordon from her viral anonymous essays penned under her pseudonym Your Fat Friend, or from her hit podcast Maintenance Phase, or her two books: You Just Need to Lose Weight and What We Don’t Talk About When We Talk About Being Fat.”
Hillary Dixler Canavan
Hillary Dixler Canavan is Eater's restaurant editor and the author of the publication's debut book, Eater: 100 Essential Restaurant Recipes From the Authority on Where to Eat and Why It Matters (Abrams, September 2023). She worked her way up through the New York City restaurant scene before landing at Eater in 2013. As part of the publication’s award-winning editorial team, she defines the scope of Eater’s national restaurant coverage and leads major initiatives like its annual Best New Restaurants list. She lives in Los Angeles with her husband and daughter and you can connect with her on Instagram.